Thursday, March 3, 2016

#vonsforlife

Yesterday I attended the soft re-opening of my local VONS grocery store.  The Grand Opening is next Wednesday morning, March 9 at 8am.  I know this because it has been on my calendar for weeks now.  The soft opening yesterday was an unexpected event – a more than pleasant surprise. 

Over a year ago, Albertsons grocery chain acquired Safeway stores – which owned the Southern California grocery chain VONS.  VONS has been a Southern California institution since it started in Los Angeles in 1906 by Charles Von der Ahe.  The merger of Safeway and Albertsons affected our local VONS store, as it was geographically too close to the local Albertsons and therefore couldn’t continue to operate as a VONS due to some strange FTC anti-trust laws.  So the local VONS closed its doors in June and reopened the next day as a Haggen’s.  While I’m sure that Haggen’s flourishes in its native locations, my old VONS location and its shoppers did not embrace it at all.  We weren’t about to pay $5 for a bottle of salad dressing in a Whole Foods wannabe knock-off grocery store. Ours was not the neighborhood for this new store: Haggen’s perhaps needed to share a parking lot with a Macy’s…not a Ross Dress for Less.  So Haggen’s failed.  Spectacularly.  Kind of like all of the local shoppers said it would.  Meanwhile, those of us in the neighborhood were left without our grocery store.

To many of us in our early childhood, Sesame Street’s Mr. Hooper exemplified the importance of the local grocer.  There was even a Fisher Price little person “Mr. Hooper” in our Sesame Street play sets.  He was a pretty big deal.  Not as big as Cookie Monster, of course, but big enough to be immortalized in a chokable plastic toy.  He was a person in our neighborhood – one that we might meet, walking down the street – and as such, gave us a foundation for what community looked like.  Grocery shopping is part of the fabric of our communal lives.  We don’t homestead and grow all of our own food here.  Grocery shopping is literally essential to our survival.  And I would contend that the community aspect of it is just as important.  It’s our neighborhood.  Our village. 

So when that community disappears, it’s upsetting.  Not just in the, “I don’t want to have to learn the layout of a new store” kind of upsetting.  But the “What the hell is going to happen to the people, who I care about, who worked here? Where will they go? What happens to our people?” kind of upsetting.  So the VONS/Haggen’s store sat empty.  For months.  My fellow shoppers and I had to find different places to shop.  And that’s what they were – just places to shop.  Going from weekly planned shopping trips at our VONS to shopping wherever and whenever felt completely unsettling: Trader Joe’s with its horrific parking and uber long lines; Walmart with its sketchy produce, questionable meat and even worse lines; and Albertsons where the prices always seemed far too high despite their “deals.”  But we’ve done it.  Had to.  Wasn’t really a choice.  We COULD drive across town to the VONS that remained open, see some of our relocated grocery store employees (but not all),  be comforted in the layout and get the items that only VONS carried.  But that was not always possible or practical. 

Until.

The sign went up in January: “Coming Soon: VONS”

Oh, the joy.  The happiness.  The sense that the universe was righting itself – turning back on its preferred axis.  To know that I could, once again, park in the 3rd spot of the 4th row and walk straight to what I might need, AND say hello to people who had been helping me feed my family for 18 years…WONDEROUS! Not sure how they averted the FTC anti-trust thing…don’t really care.  VONS was coming back!

And that is how I found myself (and 2 other loyal VONS shopper friends) in the parking lot of our local, community VONS at 8 am on a Tuesday morning.  Giddy.  Like dance in the parking lot giddy… which, of course, I did.  And take Selfies.  And post on social media.  Because we are THAT happy about our world feeling right again.  Once inside, we anxiously looked for our people.  Through the sea of employees, we only recognized a few of them.  Disappointing…a bit.  But we were assured later, that many of them were coming back and those who weren’t actually had been offer positions at closer to home locations.  We met the President of VONS, Lori, who personally thanked us for being there.  We quickly let her know that *we* were the thankful ones.  I saw an employee who I know got laid off by Albertsons, and had been commuting to a store in Bakersfield (!) and now is at this VONS.  A store less than a mile away from his home.  This.  This is why I am happy.  This is why the re-opening is a big deal to me: this store opening affects the lives of the people I share community with.

VONS is the place where I could go on Sundays, escape my family, and have alone time for an hour while shopping.  It’s the place that was open for cough medicine late at night when a kid was really sick.  Or get milk at 6:30am.  It’s where I could buy diapers, baby food, Capri Sun, Gatorade, power bars and beer.  VONS is Grandma Betty Jean – and birthday cakes and candles for every birthday no matter how old.  VONS is the Charles Von der Ahe funded library at Loyola Marymount University where I spent many, many hours in college.  VONS is peach-pineapple salsa and ILLY coffee.  VONS is the place where I know all the checkers.  VONS is Tony, whose widow we met in the meat department yesterday.  VONS is a bag of free groceries to loyal customers… like me. 

And to the mockers and laughers in my life who think I am “silly” with my devotion? Well, you just don’t get it.  And until you do my job, you can’t understand it.  So I can (mostly) forgive your ignorance.  But I don’t think *you* will be getting free groceries anytime soon…

#vonsforlife